This article brings up an interesting point about the fine line between the wonderful feeling of connectedness social media bring and the increasingly "big brother" tool it has developed in to.
Yes, we all love Facebook: it keeps us connected to our world without all that hassle of actually leaving your room. You can keep up with high school friends, or stalk the people who aren't so much your friends, and see what type of life they are living. It has become the ultimate form of expression. People can find out anything they want about you, from what you did last weekend to who you are dating. They know how many friends you have, what their names are, and even what they look like. Many college students spend hours critiquing their own profile. It serves as a major way they are judged as a person, after all.
One of the things that seems to be popular amongst students is showing how much "fun" you are having in college. From wall posts to album names, and to extremely embarassing pictures, many young adults post pictures scandalous enough to horrify their grandmother.
Because many students jumped on to Facebook when it was just meant for universities, many think that whatever they put on here will only be seen by the people they want. Not true.
It doesn't take much intellect or creativity to find those tell-all photos. You never know who is viewing them or whose "Facebook Feed" you are showing up on.
Just today, I got on to discover that my mom created her own Facebook account. I did not learn this because she friended me, instead I saw on the feed "Lisa Rowe Lee is now friends with Leslie Nolan". Lisa, my mother, had no idea that I would ever discover she had her own page. She no doubtedly created it thinking she could spy on my younger brother. Why would she add her high school friend and not her own son/daughter? Not only is my brother now running the risk of being grounded for an inappropriate wall post, this little story also illustrates how I was able to discover this fact without my mom ever finding out. The moral of the story is that you never know who is looking at your profile or what kinds of things people can find out about you.
We've all heard a million times that employers are using Facebook as a way to screen potential employees. Graduating seniors will now have to ask themselves what is more important to them? Showing off their "fun" factor to all of their friends, or use Facebook as a tool to promote yourself as a professional? Hiding your profile only tells employers that you have something to hide.
It has also been an interesting case study for businesses. Many are taking advantage of the network Facebook offers by creating their own profiles, groups and events. At first, it seems like a wonderful advertising asset.
But as the Kennesaw restaurant has proved, it more bittersweet than a PR goldmine. Big Brother is now lurking around every corner, in every digital camera and in every cell phone. If you are involved in any type of nefarious activity whatsoever, all it takes is a second and the eternalized proof of your blunder can be blasted across the nation.
Social media has drastically changed our world in many ways, and watching the way we all scramble to react to this increasing phenomenon will be interesting.
